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Purpose Coaching From all over the world, people find their way to Life Purpose Coaching in many different ways -- search engines, an email from a friend, from reading an article in an ezine, or by just 'stumbling' upon this site while surfing. However you found yourself here, it wasn't by accident even if it appears that way. Chances are you're here because, at some level, you feel a deep yearning to experience a more meaningful and satisfying life -- what I call a Life On Purpose. Such a life begins when you step upon the Purpose Path to clarify your purpose in life; your reason for being here -- here at The Successful Life Foundation and here on Earth. Take your Living On Purpose Self Test for fun! See bottom of page. No matter where you are along the Purpose Path, the Purpose Process™ can serve as your bridge taking you to the next level. If you're clueless about your purpose, or have only a vague idea what it may be, the Purpose Process will help bring clarity to your purpose. If you know your purpose but your life isn't consistent with it, the Purpose Process will give you the tools to live true to your purpose. Focus, Fulfillment and Fun While there are many different benefits that people receive from the Purpose Process, the 3 that people most consistently report are: Focus: When you know your purpose in life it acts as the rudder of a ship, keeping you on course through your life. Fulfillment: Knowing your purpose allows you to begin living true to it; a process which is both satisfying and fulfilling. Fun: Living on purpose is simply more fun than drifting through life without purpose. Coaching is offered by telephone to anyone, anywhere and takes a minimum of 8 sessions. Plus I offer free email coaching, a free newsletter,and a free monthly teleclass on many subjects. If you want to know more and would like a no obligation, complimentary session, or want to receive answers to the self help test below, please contact Jayne Chilkes at jayne_chilkes@yahoo.co.uk In the last decade the popularity of personal coaching has grown tremendously as people discover the immense value of having a coach in their corner. Some of the major benefits of having your own coach include: Focus -- Your coach helps you stay focused on what's most important in your life Clarity -- Your coach can help you move from confusion to clarity Confidence -- When you see how much your coach believes in you, it helps build your confidence Support Structure -- Having regular coaching sessions give you a powerful structure for moving forward in your life. Living On Purpose Self Test Write down the number which best represents your answer between 1(disagree) and 10(agree). Use '5' as neutral. Anything below 5 isn't working or lacks clarity; above 5 is working above average or is clear - Step One: 1. I am crystal clear what my life purpose is. 2. The life I lead is a full expression of my life purpose. (Of course, you need to know your purpose to have your life be in expression of it.) 3. My life at the moment is designed to nurture me and those around me. 4. My life at the moment gives me plenty of room to fully express myself. 5.I am fully known and related to as my life purpose by others around me. 6. I recognize the contribution I can make to others by expressing my life purpose. 7. I live a values-based life rather than a materialistic-based life. 8. My life is shaped by my life purpose rather than by what others expect of me or think I should be. 9. I fully experience and I'm grateful of the simple abundance all around me. 10. My life is free of unnecessary clutter and complexities and I seldom feel overwhelmed, rushed or cluttered. 11. I regularly acknowledge the gracious bounty of my life. 12. I fully realize that many of the best things in life are free and my life reflects this. 13. I trust that as I live true to my purpose the Universe will provide everything I need for the expression of my purpose. 14. I regularly take time to nurture myself in ways that feed my soul. 15. I have plenty of time to devote to my family, friends and community. 16. I have a rich and satisfying spiritual life. 17. I have taken time to explore my beliefs to be certain they are of my own choice rather than what others think I should believe. 18. I've established my home as a sanctuary for the soul and it reflects this. 19. I feel a deep sense of security and I'm seldom fearful of not having "enough" of anything. 20. I regularly reach out to assist others on their path to living on purpose. Step Two: Now add up your total score and email it to Jayne Chilkes. Your answer should be somewhere between 20 and 200. If you want to know more about your Life Purpose, book your complimentary Life Purpose Coaching Session. 0208 550 4122 UK/585 394-4143 USA email:jayne_chilkes@yahoo.co.uk Meeting Your Expectations! Here are 33 things you can expect from me: 1. I will listen to you fully and without judgment. 2. I will meet with you on a consistent basis. 3. I will point out options that you may not have seen. 4. I will help you communicate what is important to you. 5. I will help you to discover what is motivating or driving your thoughts. 6. I will encourage you to be your best. 7. I will facilitate growth, insights, and change. 8. I will expect more of you than you expect of yourself. 9. I will give homework. 10. I will recognize and speak to your purpose in life. 11. I will keep you focused on your goals. 12. I will help you inquire and ponder when appropriate. 13. I will give visualizations and meditations when appropriate. 14. I will direct you away from the negative choice when possible. 15. I will interrupt you when necessary. 16. I will put you in touch with other resources that will help facilitate your progress. 17. I will point out the consequences. 18. I will incorporate my life experience into our sessions. 19. I will show you how to bring balance into your life. 20. I will acknowledge your hard work and efforts. 21. I will help you implement your true talents. 22. I will help you create an action plan. 23. I will help you define and eliminate shoulds. 24. I will help you define and eliminate tolerations. 25. I will give you direction. 26. I will give instructions. 27. I will articulate your progress. 28. I will empathize with you. 29. I will help you discover solutions. 30. I will create possibilities. 31. I will help you prioritize. 32. I will say it straight. 33. I will be unconditionally accepting. The Top 10 Reasons People Don't Live Their Dreams We read and hear about the people who are living their dreams, and doing what that they love. They are having it all. Is this you? Are you living your dreams? See if something rings true for you! 1. You don't believe you can live your dreams. Either your belief system has you believing that you can't do what you love, or you don't believe it can happen to you. 2. You aren't clear about what would make you happy, so rather than starting on any path, you do nothing out of fear of making a mistake. 3. You don't think you have a dream. Everyone has a dream. Some people keep their dreams locked up inside and never see it, or don't allow themselves to find it. 4. You are afraid of failure, rejection, or being different. We are all afraid of something. But don't allow your fears to keep you from getting what you want. 5. You don't believe you can make enough money living your dreams. This is the biggest obstacle that keeps people doing work that they don't find appealing or exciting. You say, "the work is not that bad", or your "getting paid a lot", more than you could make doing something you love. 6. You think you are destined to live a less than fulfilling life, and as a result, you do not take action towards your dreams. 7. You don't think you have the time to live your dreams. Many people are so caught up in the rush of today's world, that they don't think they have time to add one more thing in their lives. 8. You still believe hard work will pay off. I'm not saying don't work hard, but at least put your heart and soul into something that is meaningful to you! 9. You don't think you deserve to be happy because so many people in the world are unhappy. 10. You are not ready. It requires a significant investment in yourself to get your life turned around, and sometimes we are not ready. But, why not look at what's holding you back and reach for the stars? Copyright 1998, Coach U, all rights reserved. Based on a list created by Susan Kennedy. Susan can be reached at coachsk@onramp.net
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